moms are so busy attending to the baby, learning and feeling all the physical changes and emotional that have started with pregnancy, which is normal to put all their attention on it and leave everything else in the background. Including sex But sex is one of the main ingredients in every couple and the man is also experiencing the changes caused by the arrival of a child, although in a different way. The bond between the mother and the child is so strong that it is common for many parents to feel excluded. However, your role as a man is also very important during breastfeeding . Not only for the care of the child but also for the care and support of your partner. Your wife may feel tired all the time because she is feeding the baby day and night. Therefore, your participation with household chores can be of great help, as well as your support and that you manifest your love in different ways. Have you tried to get close physically but she doesn't want to know anything about sex? It is very likely that this is not the way she needs you to show her love at this time. It is that during breastfeeding, a woman's sexual desire decreases, not only because she is exhausted, but also due to hormonal and physical changes characteristic of this stage.