Provitazol In such situations, it is always best to talk about your problems with your lover or spouse and resolve it instead of letting it cause emotional stress and tantrums.Eat well: sometimes your eating patterns can also affect your performance in bed and your sexual desire. Be sure to add many natural things to your food and avoid processed foods or scrap as much as possible to get the best results.Many women complain that over the years their husband's sex drive has diminished.